Why Many Indians Emigrate: A Personal Perspective

As an Indian, my journey to deciding to leave my homeland and settle abroad has been filled with a complex mix of social, cultural, and personal factors. Below, I outline some of the reasons for this decision from my personal point of view.

1. Social and Caste-Based Discontent (General Caste)

Being from a general caste in India, my experience has often left me feeling as if I am paying more than I receive from the country. The tax deducted from my salary often feels like a return of my hard-earned work to support a system that does not equally benefit me. I do not oppose reservation; in fact, I understand its intent. However, I often see it misused, with reserved caste individuals, many of whom are part of the higher middle class, using these opportunities without need. Meanwhile, those who truly require such support often struggle to access it. This imbalance contributes to my decision to seek a better life abroad.

2. Religious and Secularism Concerns (Hindu)

The phrase 'secularism' in India frequently feels more like a facade than reality. While the idea of respecting and accepting all religions is commendable, in practice, it often falls short. Hindu deities are frequently ridiculed and mocked, particularly in comedy and political speeches, leading to deep emotional pain for many Indians. This issue is exacerbated by the silence of many Hindus who fail to speak out against such treatment. Moreover, the control of Hindu temples and the Endowment Act, which allows the government to loot money from these sacred institutions, further fuels the sense of disrespect towards Hinduism. Despite the rhetoric about India being a secular state, the reality is different. Many feel that being Hindu in India is akin to being a refugee in one’s own land.

3. Gender Issues and Legal Injustice (Men)

The status of men in India is another factor contributing to my decision. Indian laws often favor women, leading to false cases being filed against innocent men. The legal system seems to lean heavily towards protecting women, which has led to many men feeling educated and women being mistreated. Additionally, women receive preferential treatment in various sectors, such as free bus tickets and discounts, while men, especially those from general castes, face harsher conditions. This disparity in treatment has made the law seem more like a tool of oppression than a protector of justice. Personal trust in the Indian legal system has eroded to the point where I no longer wish to marry within this framework.

4. Societal Pressures and Brainlessness (Indian Societies)

Living in a society where the need to interfere in others' lives is deeply ingrained can be detrimental. Deciding not to marry due to certain laws has led to unwanted and negative pressure from my community. Many societies in India are filled with brainless and often even educated individuals who wield their education to exert control or influence over others without true regard for their wellbeing. This kind of superficial, often hollow, intellectualism is discouraging.

While there is much more to say, the above points are enough to demonstrate why I, and many like me, feel compelled to leave India. India is a great country, but its people are often brainless, making them vulnerable to invasions and deception. However, I want to emphasize that I still love India deeply and wish to contribute to the nation by sharing its rich culture, supporting the poor and orphaned, and caring for the elderly.

For those who believe I emigrate for financial gain, I must clarify that I already have a good salary in India. My decision is not driven by money but by the desire to escape the societal and cultural dysfunctions that seem irresolvable and may even worsen over time.

Lastly, I am not an escapist; rather, I am a realist. The issues I have highlighted are not unique to me, but they are significant enough to prompt action and change. Until such change occurs, it is necessary to seek a better life elsewhere.