Ariel's Quest: Would You Rather Have a Child With a Common Name or a Made-Up One?

Introduction

picked out a name that
is both unique and meaningful for my granddaughter, Meredyn. While she has received immense praise for her imaginative name, I've come across the challenges of a rare name. This article explores the pros and cons of both common and made-up names, providing insights and considerations for parents and guardians.

Personal Experience: Meredyn's Unique Name

When my granddaughter, Meredyn, was born, her parents chose her name from a mix of common and made-up names. The name Meredyn was a blend of Meredith, a popular name, and an inventive twist, diff'. The process was collaborative and creative. The parents liked the name Meredith but wanted something more distinctive. Thus, Meredyn was born. While she receives compliments for the name, I could see the potential issues that come with such a unique name in everyday life.

My Naming Journey

Grow up with a common name that was among the top three most popular names for a decade, yet I didn’t feel comfortable with it. Common names can make you blend into the crowd, but they can also limit you in certain situations. On the other end of the spectrum, I have a made-up middle name, Wendy, which has its own set of quirks, such as an abundance of Peter Pan jokes. It’s more girly and romantic but also stands out in a crowd. It’s interesting how names can embody personal and cultural identities.

In Depth: Common vs. Made-Up Names

Common Names

Common names, such as Amelia, Amanda, Sophia, and Hailey, are popular choices for girls, while David, Bryan, Cristopher, and Andrew are common for boys. These names are more likely to be familiar to others, making them easier to remember and recognize. However, they might not leave a lasting impression or stand out in a crowd.

Made-Up Names

Made-up names, such as Apple, Trinity, Justice, and Dax, are creative and unique. They can be captivating and memorable but might cause confusion or frustration in certain situations. For example, if you’re considering a name for a child who might need to go into witness protection, a common name would be safer.

Thoughts on Both Approaches

Both common and made-up names have their pros and cons. A common name can be easier to remember and less prone to misspellings, while a made-up name can be more memorable and stand out. The decision comes down to personal preference, cultural identity, and the desired impact you want to make on your child’s life.

Conclusion: A Harmony of Names

Ultimately, whether you go with a common or a made-up name, the choice should reflect your values, your child’s personality, and your aspirations. A common name can blend in, while a made-up name captures attention. My name, Adelissa, is a blend of common and made-up. It’s unique enough to leave a mark but not so unconventional as to cause confusion. However, the story of my name also teaches us about the importance of cultural heritage. My name, a variant of Adelis, Alice, and Adele, has a rich history, connecting me to royal ancestors and even to the late Princess Diana. It’s a testament to the power of names to carry stories and traditions.

So, when it comes to naming your child, take the time to reflect, discuss, and make a decision that feels right for you and your family. Whether you choose a common name or a made-up one, the name will carry a meaning and a story that will shape your child’s identity.